Nik- Know what u mean about the MIL's!! Mine rang DH last week & can you believe this!? She asked him if he could stay with her one day & night! I couldn't believe it. He's only 7 wks old there is no way I would let him out of my sight...I couldn't believe it anyway. Does that make me too over protective?? I just think when they're this young they need their mummies --- & we need them,! LOL. But we're going over to redcliffe Sunday & we'll leave Jackson & maybe Cara too if she wants with the oldies for a few hrs. Thats the best we can do! I was saying to Dh that I will be watching carefully that Grandma doesn't fob off our girl in favour of the new bub! She is very sensitive & will pick up on it. I actually watched My MIL do this when Cara was a baby with one of Caras cousins who was about 3 at the time. And I didn't like it then. thought it was a bit mean!