Thanks Melanie for that advice, Matthew will only be going 1 day a week as that`s the only spot they have, great that it has helped Jack so much I`m hoping it will help Matthew with a few issues, although he has always shared his toys with Adrian he finds it hard to know how to play nicely with him, he`s always so rough it doesn`t help that the big boys often play rough with Matthew. I know there are lots of advantages and I know he`ll love it and benefit from it but it`s so hard, it must get harder once they go to school. The director said she doesn`t care if I`m a nerotic mother and ring 4 times a day, that`s fine, or I can go in any time at all and join in with the activities and observe Matthew, they seem to really involve the entire family.

Oh forgot to say yay for the TT and crawling, fantastic, perhaps your two boys could have a word to my two