Missy: hope you can get an appt, it's so hard here to get an appt same day. Thanks, I know Ashlea's well being comes first, still really frustrating though as things were going good.

Pink: big for you, you do what you want to do Hun, PM me if you need to chat or vent, we are both in very similar situations including our other halves attitudes. It's definitely harder first time around, I was lucky to have SIL's that were a great support with BF'ing.

I have no idea what is going on with Ashlea... I attempted to feed her at 8pm and after a few goes she attached and fed then refused the other side, I let her sleep and I expressed. 9pm I tried again and she eventually fed off the other side. Still have my appt tomorrow so just have to wait. As soon as this is all sorted I promise I'll be back more often.