Feeb - honey if you want him in your bed, you keep him there ok? I don't think it will cause too much of a problem later on - I think its more that you do what you can to survive each day when bubs are unsettled. This shall pass, all bad times do. He won't be doing it when he's 15

Missy - yeah, we have to do fun activities with him and give him lots of attention for him to get past that magic 4pm!!! He usually crashes then if we let him - but we've made things too much fun to go to sleep, books, drawing, playing with toys (easy when DH is home on holidays so I can still do stuff around the house!!!) I think it also helps that I have a really easygoing baby as well. He goes down around 6.30 - DH is about to put him to bed now while I go cook dinner. I luuuuurve eating my dinner with no child attached to me!!!!!