Kate - I always thought I would like a big family, but now I think after this pregnancy, if all goes well, will be it. I'm getting a bit old too (35 now) and I guess it just gets riskier the later you leave it. The other issue is, I would like some time together just with my DH! We are pretty much newlyweds, got into babymaking straight away, and he's 8 years older than me,so if we do the maths, by the time the kids are old enough to look after themselves, we will be old bats and they'll be looking after us *lol*! So 2 or 3 (if I have twins) is enough. I would be happy to have another boy btw, its DH who is wishing for a girl. Sent you an email too, thanks love.

Hi everyone, just jumping on and off.