Ha ha ha...the joys of wedding planning! My only advice....make sure you get lots of decent photos, because after it is all over, these are the only tangible things that you will have to remind you. Memories fade, but the photos will immediately cast you back to the day. We spent quite a lot on our photos, and I am very glad we did.

I remember sweating over the menu and wine lists....but on the day, I hardly ate or drank a thing. And to be completely honest, so long as the food is not dodgy, people won't care. I have been to NUMEROUS weddings in my life and honestly, the things like flowers, cake design, food, wine etc doesn't stick out in my mind for any of them. Only unless they were god awful (like this disgusting spumante my cousin served for the toasts at his wedding...blurghh, or the red gothic wedding dress my cousin turned up in...different to be sure!)