My DH gets me a Mothers day pressie, and card from him every year, its his appreciation of the job I do, as a mother to his children ( not a very good job tonight, have just boiled the spuds dry and theres the horrid smell of burnt potatoes every where!!! YUK. )

Hay, I am very sorry you had a fight tonight, hope it all resolves, and that this helps to clear the air I agree Men are big babies, and I dont think they actually ever grow up, or grow out of the "selfish" phase, TBH when I get cross over his selfishness, i try remind myself he doesnt mean it, and just doesnt know any better.