we have been sleeping one or both boys in our bed too and I guess whatever will be will be - if is so nice to cuddle up to them.DH said we will need a bigger bed.

Except this early this morning I thought both were in bed but could only feel one - checked under the covers and half groogy I even felt floor bedside the bed to check ... but DH had put Samuel back in the cot.

WE gave our boys a 'pacifier' too - it soothes them and Mummy/Daddy - Samuel rarely sucks his though.

I am trying a nipple shield for Joel now ... which he did take but both my nipples are sore - Laninsoh supposedly works wonders for sore/cracked nipples in case anyone needs to know. I think he has reflux because cries and is unsettled a lot in his sleep.

Yes - it is good to know others have the same issues.