hey sasha - I was typing my post as you were doing yours, & I feel horrible when I don't do personals for everyone that's posted, so this is another post that's just for you

I hear you on the words - even though we've got a lot, there's still a lot of leg pulling and guess work on my part. More words might be a bit of a double edged sword though - they'll be able to tell us what they want, but they'll also be able to argue their points with us too, and that's a scary thought!