Sacha - i hope things are getting better for you in the sleep stakes. The first few days will be the hardest, but in saying that i am still pulling my hair out with lucas' daytime sleep. He goes to sleep fine but is impossible to resettle. I'm not sure where Tweddle comes from, they are basically a sleep school that runs day and night stays, luckily the one we went to was free! I think there is a book called Sleep Right, Sleep Tight that you can get that has thier stuff in it. For after 6 months i will have to find the brochure but its leaving to cry for intervals of 2, then 4, then 6, then 8, then 10 min at a time. After each interval i think you go in for between 2 and 10 min. Will have to try and find it.

Em - Very funny about the names, maybe we will both end up with Lucas and Tom, i am convinced i will have another boy next time!

Rebecca - will try the hand holding, ta!

Welcome Raels!