Morning everyone! Hope you all had a better night sleep than me, Lucas was fine but i think i tossed and turned for about 4 hours - not fun!

I need help! Lucas' social phobia is really starting to get to me. Yesterday we went to a bbq for Cup Day and i couldn't give him to anyone. He got so overtired and screamed for ages...had to be when DH was at TAB and i was on my own. I ended up in tears when he got back cos i get so stressed and anxious when we are out. He will not let anyone else hold him, it is a nightmare. I cant relax when we go out at all! No idea what to do, is there anything i can do???????

Leah - Lucas is the same, good at night but catnaps during the day most of the time. I haven't been able to do much about it to tell you the truth! I am at the point now where i can't be bothered resettling after the 40 minutes so i usually get him up for a bit and then try and put him back! Alot of the time he will have 2 naps between feeds.

Jan - Liam will probably go back to his longer stretch at night. Lucas has gone through stages where he will sleep 12 hours for two weeks and then start waking again for a night feed.....figure it out i say!

Mel - glad you're feeling a bit better - you've had a rough/busy time and are only human!

Em - I'm glad i am not the only one who can't switch off! Unfortunately though it was in the middle of the night last night i was stressing about Lucas and his issues with people! We had lots of girls names.....Ella, Georgia, Taylah, Grace, Charlotte...we never really decided! Tom seems to be an ace sleeper during the day, what's your secret??

Sacha - Glad you are having some better luck with Autumn's sleeps!

Rebecca - Lucas' bedtime varies between about 7.30 and 8 depending on when his first feed is. He was going to bed around 8 and sleeping till about 8 but we decided it would be great if we coiuld get him in bed by 7.30 so we could have dinner in peace rather than eating one at a time! So at the moment we are experimenting with having his last feed at 7pm and he has been waking around 6.30 - 7am, but i never get him out of bed till after 7!! It's a toss up as to whether i prefer getting up later, or having him in bed earlier!

Well that's all i can remember....but i do have a confession...even though Marty is a useless performer i actually quite liked his voice and when he sang with a guitar, would have rather him than Carl!!

Have a good day, may good sleeps be with you all!