Dee, sweetie if I still lived in Wollongong you would have yourself a visitor!!! You'd be going to the hairdressers, massage place, pub, where ever you need to for a break!!! And I'd give your hubby a kick in the pants while you were out. I wish I could give you words of wisdom to help with Lachlan, I really really do!! Just take care. Do you have my email address if you need to talk?