Awww I don't think you're being a Primadonna.... but hey don't despair... people change... it sounds like you guys have only been together a relatively short time (compared to my 13 year r/ship with my DH). When I think about how much my DH has changed in that time anything is possible for you. Please please keep in mind that the first year with a new baby for any couple is very tough, especially the first baby. My DH and I fought like cats and dogs in the first year about very similar issues to what you are raising. However I do acknowledge that the situation is different as my DH was married before so perhaps has more practise with identifying and meeting needs etc.

Enjoy your bath... see y'all in the morning... nighty nite