NOW, Jess, I thought of you this morning as I was trying to get Wade ready for the first of his 2 kinder orientation classes. Scenario: I had to get him there at 8.45am. He wasn't keen because he knew it meant that I would have to leave him for a short spell so he wouldn't eat breakfast or basically do anything i needed him to do. So I left him and dealt with Niall who was being really clingy an unsettled too. Verity also sprung a "homework" issue on me at the last minute: "Mum! For science the teacher said we have to measure ourselves because a student said they heard we are taller in the mornings than at night... I can't do it by myself you HAVE to help me NOW!" ...ok so I did that... meanwhile Niall screamed because i put him down and Wade was demanding he watch a video at the top of his lungs. I toyed with putting Niall in a sling but I knew that that wouldn't work when it came time to dress Wade... believe me it just doesn't work! So after helping Verity (thank God she is totally autonomous in every other regard of getting ready for school) I focus on Wade... he started off by kicking and screaming. Niall was screaming too... great... so much for "gentle parenting" i felt like an ogre... of course there was the option of just not taking Wade... anyhow in the end I managed to convince Wade that I was just going to very briefly go to the shop to buy him a train while he was at kinder... bribery.... works everytime.... because I save it as a very last resort it's usually very effective. So i was able to dress him. unfortunately Niall screamed the whole time even though he was right beside me on Wade's floor

But what could I do? Jess!???? And I've soon got to do this twice a week... Now Wade ended up LOVING kinder... despite a report from the teacher that at one stage there was tears.... he got his train and is keen to return on Friday. Anyhow I just wanted to let you girls know that even though sometimes i might sound like I have all the answers I Don't! LOL my oh my oh my.... what have I got myself in for!
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