Thanks Nic & Dee! I know we will be ok, its just hard trying to understand men sometimes. DF is one of those people who has an opinion on something and if you dont agree then YOU are in the wrong. Its starting to drive me crazy.

Age gaps between kids:My sister and i are exactly two years apart (we have the same birthday) Mum had a miscarriage in between and it took her a few extra months to fall Pg with me so she would have had two babies very close. She said that she would have loved that. Another friend of mine who had her baby one week after i had lachlan is now 2 months pregnant so her two are going to be approx 14months apart!!! Now thats a handful!
I do believe that if lachlan was a more settled baby i would be thinking about trying myself but at the moment i think its the last thing i will be doing!