What a great question Jaspen I too battle with this one as I say I want one more but then look at my wonderful family and think do I really want to try again? The hardest thing for me is I have had three very healthy, well behaved babies, who slept through by 4mths would I be that lucky again or will I have a crying unsettled baby. DH has said he would have another with me if thats what I really want, but do I? or is it just because I see my baby growing up sooooo fast that it makes me sad that she could be the last, and what would stop me from feeling this way if I have another one. My mum has always said you just know when you are done but she had 7 so no doult she was!

well we had friend come over on both sat and sun this weekend dont get me wrong its nice to have people over and gets me someone to talk to and the kids someone to play with but I find it strange that DH has been going away now the whole 18mths that we have lived here and this is the first time I have had people to ring me up to see what we were doing and if we were up for a visit which of course we were doing nothing so I said come over. It just happens now that we are renting a house with a pool they seem to care or realise that I'm doing it alone most weekends, as now the weather has warmed up that want to come over. Well thats the end of my rant it just gets a little sad its like I'm only worth knowing now I have a pool they can cool down in.

what a lovely name nic and trent have chosen I love the name tyron, but DH has a mate with that name so we have felt the we could never use it.

hope all is going well with baby Tyron and hope big brother Nixson is doing well and coping with the new arrival..

better go have to take May to gym.