thanks for your replies girls, its good to come in here and vent, the main issue with us is that DF is from the old school, he expects dinner to be ready when he gets home and the house to be spotless etc, i find it hard to even get myself dressed some days, and if i dont go anywhere he tells me im a homebody.Dont get me wrong, he is a loving man and has really helped out around the house but now feels that i should be doing most of it.
When lachlan is having one of his crying fits DF will take him and if he doesnt stop crying he will give him back to me and tell me he's "over it". i just want a bit of support, i want to be able to have a shower and not worry that lachlan is crying and DF is getting flustered and yelling at him. DF's solution to it is to put him in a room and let him cry himself to sleep but there is no way that i will do it so when i have to hold lachlan DF tells me its my own fault that the baby is like this. The other day we were having a bake dinner and he put the meat in the oven and i went and asked him how long it was going to take so i could start the veges and put them in at the right time and he told me that i should know and i need to learn to cook and he cant "do everything"
I just dont know what to do. some days its all good and we get on really well and other days im really angry at him and i dont want to be around him. Im sure once the baby settles things for us will settle too but its just such a hard time in our lives.


Bath - with the infacol i was worried about the air having gotten in there for a couple of days, i dont know if these things go off or not. hmmm i might call the chemist and ask!

Sorry to come on here and vent but i really need to get it out. This is the only place i can really vent.

thanks for all your help, im hoping that this all settles down for us soon. As for the mini pill, i might give it a go as i have heaps of milk and a really fast let down so it might even improve that for me, if i feel that its starting to dry up then i will stop, im sure the milk will build up again.