Welcome Emmsan!
Do whatever works!
You have to be happy and not stressed and getting some rest so you can look after bubs and enjoy bubs!
Edison sleeps with us sometimes too. We have a cot beside the bed and a little snuggle nest that sits in between our pillows when we need him close, so we don't have to get up, we can just put our hand on him to soothe or easily put the dummy in. You can do all this half asleep as you don't have to get up, so you get more sleep!

Hi Ladies,

Sorry I have been absent, had my parents up for 10 days and a few tough times with Edison - we found at his 1 month checkup he hadn't put on ANY weight (failure to thrive) so there where a few trying times and stress! he is putting on weight now with formula! Thank god!
I'll pop back in tomorrow to catch up!

Thinking of you all