Thanks to all of you for the hugs! Am resting in bed and get to see my little girl all day for 2 weeks so not all bad.
DH is sleeping a lot when he is home. The whole thing wore him out. I have just signed up for hospital insurance and booked my own after care follow up as the hospital did nothing!

FW - sorry to hear about the job. There must be a better one around the corner for you.