Prama, great to hear from you, sorry that people are so rude to you ... i cant believe people would be that insensitive!
Bron - fingers crossed for your DH - i really hope for both of you he gets a good job, he sounds like he was not appreciated in the last one...

Got a real laugh out of MJ yesterday, it was sooo nice and it melted my heart

got a new washing line today ( retractable hills hoist), the porch was finished yesterday, i am soooo happy, did 3 loads of washing today even though it has peed down all day ( washing line is undercover.

Took MJ swimming today for the first time, she loved it and kicked her legs the whole time we were there.
DSS was with us too, he got a kick out of it and loves swimming.
Bron things are going ok... its hard not knowing when he will be coming, but it is so positive for him when he is here, that i dont want to be negative about him coming iykwim... we are having him about 6 nights a fortnight - which is nearly a 50% split now, massive change from 3 nights a fortnight, doesnt sound much, but when you are learning to be a mummy and all those changes, having that as unpredicatble as it can be at times is really trying and i have even less time for me now. thanks for asking
gotta go, im sooo tired