Prama, I'm so sorry for the comments people are making. It's like people either forget or have no idea that your body changes after having a baby. My hip bones are a different shape. When I was almost due the leather shop near us had a closing down sale so I bought a pink leather skirt (on DH's advice) for $30 marked down from $80 or something like that. Now DH keeps saying that I need to work on things to try to fit into it...it would fit me around the waste but because my hip bones have changed I can't get it past them. It's not weight which can be taken care of, it's bone which I can't do anything about and DH just doesn't get it.