Thanks for your welcome.
I didn't know there was a 9 week change, and after the 6 week change I don't think I'm ready for another one just yet, so if the 12wk one is only a fortnight away I think I might foster her out till its over! She has her first cold, and the demazin drops are a godsend... though it is funny on how groggy she gets from them.
I do have a question though... my husband and I have a weird routine because of his work, so I haven't tried to get K into one, she just seems to have sorted out when she feeds and sleeps herself and we stick with that, is there anything wrong with her controlling her routine?