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  1. #1
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    Apr 2008
    in love. lots of it.
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    Well, it's about time I showed my face back here! I've been so busy I haven't had a chance to get near my puter in ages! My mum left yesterday, she's been staying with us for the last few weeks, and has been an absolute gem. While I lazed around getting bored, heavy and overdue, she took on all my nesting urges and cleaned my place from top to bottom, inside and out TWICE! And it didn't even need it... And she cooked, took me shopping, re-potted all my house plants, sewed clothes and slings, and gave me aromatherapy massages and acupressure twice daily up until the birth of Aadi, which was so easy now that I think about it (oooh, but you gotta luv that gas!). Maybe the hormones are making me forget, but everything's been great. Aadi sleeps 3-4 hours at a time, waking for maybe up to an hour for a feed, change and settle. I don't mind so much, and it's only now that he's getting to 2 weeks that he's having a little feeding frenzy and not settling so easily. So I had my first day-time nap yesterday. Having him in the sling in the daytime and sleeping in our bed at night makes it better for both of us, tho. I'm managing to get up and feed, change and settle Aadi without even waking DP, which he's pleased about as he's gone back to work. The midwife told me at the hospital to expect more frequent feeds at around this stage, so I'm prepared for that.

    So we've been out and about, on the tram, train, to the city, restaurants, the museum, daddy's office (to meet the fan club!), shopping and strolling all over town. Breastfeeding in public has been easier than I'd imagined, though "parents rooms" are disgusting! What a joke.
    I hear you all on the lop-sided bb thing! The right one just sprays like a fire hose sometimes, and I accidentally got Aadi in the eye last night - oops! - but at least it's good for the little bit of gooey-ness he had there! But one bb has always been a bit bigger than the other, so I figure it's normal. Also, I ditched those horrible maternity pads after a week. No surfboards in my pants, please! Not necessary.
    The MCH nurse visited yesterday, but didn't bother to weigh Aadi (he was cosy and warm in the sling). He's feeding well, and doing great, so no point. Maybe next week. Right, off to the markets now. Gotta get me some snacks to keep by the bed for late-night feeds. I get SO hungry now and absolutely stuff myself, but I'm back into my old jeans, so it's all good!

  2. #2
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    Mar 2005
    Brisbane
    353

    NaNa - Sounds like you are settling right into life with a baby. I'm envious!! And way to go on being back in your old jeans! I still have a long way to go before I reach that point...

    Deancey - Sounds like Jordan and Liam are both settling in well. My lochia is the opposite - hardly anything at night but a little more during the day when I am moving about doing things. But still, it is very light now so nice and managable. No mad rush to get undies and a pad in place when I get out of the shower anymore. I hate that bit!

    Mecil - yep, my left boob is bigger and gets more full and sprays more than the right. I had terrible cracks on the right that took 3 months to heal last time and have a massive scar on that nipple so not sure if it's due to that or just because my left was always going to be the milkier side? It gives me a little bit of a logistics problem with trying to make sure each baby gets equal time on the 'good' boob though!! LOL

    Sarah - Right now, 5 hours of broken sleep is sounding luxurious! But I know what you mean - you very quickly get used to 6 hours or whatever you manage to get and then you miss it when it's gone! I hope Juliette returns to her former sleepiness tonight for you. I hate the way the MCN put so much emphasis on baby weight. It causes so much unnecessary stress for mothers IMO.

    Nikki - Abbie sounds like such a calm, settled baby. I have heard lots of mums say #3 is a charm - do you think she's easier than your others?

    As for us - I feel like I am coping far better than I did with the newborn stage last time. If I just had 1 baby, I'd be getting lots of sleep and just cruising. But there's two! eek! They seem to play tag-team and take it in turns to be unsettled. They were doing really well for a while but last night Hazel was unsettled from her feed at 6:30pm until she finally fell asleep at 2am. She was screaming with what I think was a sore, windy tummy. Then Imelda woke for a feed at 4:30am, got her fed and settled and then Hazel woke again at 6am. Then my toddler was up for the day at 7am. So I got a total of about 2 hours sleep.
    My last baby never had problems with wind so I don't know what to do! I have tried every recommended position I can find - massage, walking etc etc. When Eleanor wakes up I think we are off to the chemist for some Infacol or similar - I can't take another night like last night!! Now just to figure out how to make it to the chemist with the 3 of them on my own...

  3. #3
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    Oct 2004
    Caroline Springs,Melbourne
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    Hannahfroodoo I used brauers with Jordan as I could never get his wind up. You give it before each feed and its meant to help. Maybe ask your chemist to see if they can recommend anything for you. WOW you certainly have your hands full with 3 little ones. I hope you do manage to get some good sleep in here and there.

    NaNa you sound as though you are cruising along so well. I cant beleive how out and about you have been. Well done on being so confident too with the BF in public. I know I was paranoid the first time around.

    Well today has been great although we have been up since 5.30am thanks to DH alarm and Jordan waking up from it. Liam slept till 7.30am from 4am which was good. I fed him and he slept from about 9 to 1. I have fed him and he is now back in bed. Jordan had a visit from his uncle this morning so he has played non stop all morning. He is also down for a nap which is nice.
    I have to just put some washing in the dryer and then organise tea and I can relax for the day.
    Off to playgroup tomorrow, my 1st outing with the 2 boys on my own. I am a little nervous but atleast there will be plenty of mums to go gaga over Liam so I am sure I wont get stranded.
    have a great day everyone
    XX

  4. #4
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    Feb 2008
    Brisvegas
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    Wow hannahfroodoo sounds like you have alot on your plate!! Hope you managed to get to the chemists ok, I just bought some infacol today as the last few days and nights bub has had the worst wind pains, I have put it down to my large family block of chocolate fettish and brocoli for dinner 2 nights in a row, so am cutting out chocolate and brocoli both of which I Love to see if that makes a difference I have also realised that my bircher museli I have eaten the past 2 mornings has dries fruit, so am going to stop that also and see what happens!!!

    Deancey it is surprising how good you can feel after only having 6-8hrs broken sleep hey, I am waiting for the crash & burn....

    How is everyone elses nipples?? Mine feel like they are going to fall off! So sore, the cracks have healed thanks to lansinoh but when she first latcehes on it takes my breathe away!! My left nipple then throbs for about an hour and if I bump it, wholly crap it hurts!! The joys of it all...

    I had my first outing by myself & bub today, caught the bus and did the grocery shopping, timed it so we did not have to feed, bub was great, I carried her in a baby bjorn, she just looked around for about an hour, then fell asleep, very good. Felt great to be out of the house, first sunny day in a while.

    Well I had better go and feed bub so then I can start on our dinner, pasta and sauce... NO ONION or GARLIC.....

    Heres hoping we all have much better nights sleep than previos!!

    Cheers Mecil

  5. #5
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    Oct 2004
    Caroline Springs,Melbourne
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    Mecil congrats on making your 1st trip out alone a success. LOL at eating block of choc, I did that and paid for it My boobs are ok. All healed up now. I would check you dont have thrush on nipples. When I was BF Jordan I did have similr pain and it turned out I had thrush and so did bubs in his mouth. If you check Zali mouth is it white???? Maybe see the chemist or doc.

    Well tonight has been going ok apart from Jordan waking Liam with his loudness. Why dont 2 yrs olds understand "talk quietly" LOL
    Gonna chill on the couch for a while, Liam due to feed at 9 and then I might hit the hay with him.
    Heres to a good night sleep everyone
    XX

  6. #6
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    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    when she first latcehes on it takes my breathe away!! My left nipple then throbs for about an hour and if I bump it, wholly crap it hurts!!
    OMG I could have posted that exact same thing! Even down to it being the left one that hurts! No idea what that's about, but there is no white in Juliette's mouth so I just put it down to my nipples not being used to all the attention. Congrats on your first outing alone, we have't done one just yet, still got all of next week with Aaron home.

    How did you go today Deancey? Other than Jordan being a bit too loud. Juliette ignores Zander's shouting, screaming, running round etc which is good. Though she does try to look for him when he talks quietly near her, too cute.

    Wow, NaNa sounds like you & Aadi have been very busy in the last few weeks. I can't wait to be able to drive & get out a bit more. Though with Aaron home we've been doing a few different things.

    Not a lot going on here. I finally got Juliette's room reorganised, I had the hammock out, but she wasn't a fan so I packed it away & rearranged everything back to how I wanted it. Not sure I should have been moving furniture around just yet, but I wasn't lifting anything, just pushing things around.

  7. #7
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    Mar 2005
    Brisbane
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    Mecil - youch! My nipples have healed pretty fast this time - the pain is almost gone now - but I can totally relate after the breastfeeding experience from hell last time around! I hope it gets better quickly! Well done on getting out of the house. You're brave to try public transport too! Wasn't it nice to see the sun out yesterday!

    Deancey - How did playgroup go? We have recently moved and I miss my old playgroup.. Sucha great way to get out of the house with little kids.

    Sarah - You are going to miss your DH after having him home so long! It's so nice to have that extra pair of hands, huh? Don't go shifting too much furniture!!

    I went down to the chemist last night after DH got home so I still haven't braved an outing on my own. I am trying the 'Infant's Friend' wind drops. I think they helped some? We had a better night anyway. Only had an unsettled baby from 11pm till about 2am so at least I got some sleep. I'm really loathe to start cutting out food since I hate the thought of limiting my diet for so long but I guess if this keeps up I will have to think about it... blegh.

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    Oct 2004
    Caroline Springs,Melbourne
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    hannahfroodoo I know what you mean about thinking about your diet. On the one hand I want to eat what I want but then I dont want to suffer the consequences. I ate dim sims yesterday and dont think they agreed with Liam at all, he was very windy last night. I am glad you had a better night, infants friend seems to have done something for the girls.

    Sarah I dont think you should have been moving furniture but I am same as you, I cant help myself. I hate having to rely on others to do things. I have been doing washing etc, no vacuuming as yet but will get the broom out today. Thats great Juliette will sleep thru Zanders noise. Liam is pretty good although there are times Jordan is WAY TOO LOUD and he gets startled.

    Well playgroup was good. It was so nice to get out of the house even if only to playgroup. Liam fed before we left so he slept most of the time we were there. That meant I was able to pay attention to Jordan and he had a great time. The mums bought Liam a turtle stuffed toy, so nice of them. Liam was passed around a little but I didnt mind.
    I am surprised it wasnt as hard as I had expected. I guess if I had to feed him whilst we were there it would have been more difficult.
    Are any of you going to put bubs on EBM? I am returning to work on 1st sept as DH is taking 3 months paid paternity leave. I only get 3 months paid leave also so we thought better 1 of us be home and get paid and I think DH will enjoy being SAHD for a few months. I was thinking of trying Liam on the bottle at 4 weeks. I want to get him really used to it before I go back to work. I thought if he has one every second day for 1 feed he should be fine by the time I am back. I only work mon, tues, friday and sat so will still get to spend 3 days at home with my boys.

    hope you are all having a great day
    XX

  9. #9
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    Apr 2008
    in love. lots of it.
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    just popping in quickly between loads of washing and walkies! So nice to get out of the house without being shrouded in icy fog all day.
    I hadn't really considered changing my diet much, but after yesterday's fuss-fest and a fair bit of projectile milk vomit, I think I should skip the funghi pizza with taleggio cheese and truffle oil... just a thought! I don't know if it was the shrooms, the stinky cheese, or the stinky truffle oil, but I'll do us both a favour and go easy on it from now on! oye what a mess! In case you're wondering, milk does not make a good upholstery cleaner. Thank goodness for Ikea washable couch covers.

    I had ouchy nipples for the first day before I left the hospital coz bubs was pinching a bit, and they hurt pretty bad when the milk came in, but Lansinoh helped immensely and I haven't had to use it since. I hope that you ladies suffering boobs-on-fire figure out what's causing it and get it sorted! That's excruciating. Pain is not your friend! Ask a lactation consultant or your MCH nurse, or maybe try nipple shields? I dunno...

    I went out to the bellybelly centre the other day and picked up the cast I had done (at 38 weeks 3 days!). The centre's looking great. The cast looks amazing, and it was pretty hilarious when DP held it up in front of his tummy. It was pretty weird to see it up on the shelf in the centre, after they had loads of people thru there for the open day last weekend. So now they've all seen my bbs...
    I need to think of something to paint on it now, to decorate it. When I have time. Haha! and I only have one bebe to look after...
    Oh, and I've discovered one other important thing: There is NOTHING harder than a Bonds Easysuit. Just don't even bother, they are the stupidest things ever. Nothing easy about them whatsoever. Just my opinion, of course!

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