hey Jess i know how you feel. Cody would scream for 3 hours not cause i let him it would just take us that long to get him back to sleep. Here are some things that either i tried or people told me to try with cody. Have you tried a warm realaxation bath sometimes this will help bring up the wind. Some people take their bubs to a chiropractor and get bubs back cracked i never tried it i was too scared but its another option. I was also told to feed him upright to limit the amount of wind, Massage which you have been doing, Does Tiahna burp after being fed becasue even if you give her a massage after each feed or atleast a few times during the day may limit the amount of wind still there in the afternoon or night. I hope that something works for you i know how you feel. We could not go anywhere with cody for the first few months as he hated the car and he screamed at night. Good luck and if you need someone to talk to i am here.

Nikki