Sorry to hear dinner times are getting so frustrating for you, Rails! I know how you feel though as Kynan has been doing a similar thing for a while now (although with him it's mainly refusing anything with vegies in it!). I just make sure I offer Kynan a wide range of food to choose from and I still spoon feed him as well as letting him have finger foods at each meal. Like with Jesse I think Kynan would go hungry if I didn't spoon feed him some of the meal! For at least 1 meal a day, sometimes more, he insists on having his own bowl and spoon, both of which usually end up on the floor but if he doesn't have them then he'll scream and refuse to eat LOL. Sometimes I have to sing nursery rhymes to him just to get him to swallow his food otherwise he just spits it all out LOL.