Thanks again Elissa I really appreciate your sincerity. And yeah I am not worried about lachlan, he has surprised me heaps when I didn't think he was going to do something he did, so yes he will do it in his own time.

Now kim, I specifically came on here to thank you. And thank you whole heartedly, cause what you have said is absolutely right and I feel that you have saved the day. Right when I needed ya, you came through for me and I appreciate it so much. You are right, I shouldn't doubt myself, and I shouldn't change who I am, people should just accept me for who I am. Gee I have been so down on this and all of a sudden everything just seems so much clearer. Thank you! xoxo

As for the move, it is a big decision and yes you deserve to have the answers set right in your mind. GL with it.