I'm guessing that's good news.
So... when will the move be?
As for your question re my mum...
If I never saw her again, it wouldn't bother me at all. The minimum contact that we currently have is also fine by me. So I won't be overjoyed to see her again - but I'm not angry or bitter at her. I just have no feelings what-so-ever. Whereas, I think she will lay on all the "motherly love" so thick - that it will make me sick. We will just have to see how the meeting goes. I'm doing it for her sake - not for mine, and not for Shaun. He has 2 grandmas - Yariv's mum (who will be here in November) and my stepmum who he adores. My fear is that she will consider moving back to Melbourne, especially when she finds out I'm having another baby. My mum makes enemies where-ever she moves - thus the reason she left Melb. No doubt she has ****ed off a few people in her current suburb. Also her husband (her 3rd) sent me an email indicating that he wanted to leave her. So if she was alone, she would probably move back here. I have told her that if she ever wanted to be a part of our life, the condition was she (and I) would have to have counselling. This is something she doesn't think she needs - pfft!!!
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