jodie - some peoples minds work in mysterious ways! Its great that you don't let things with your mum affect you.

kim - sorry you ended up in a fight with DH, good news about the job for you though.

Archie got up earlier than usual this morning, so we wnt and got a lock for the kitchen food cupboard so he can stop helping himself constantly during the day, this has helped my anger and frustration a lot! The we went to the playground and had the whole big playground to ourselves arch ran off all his energy and is now in bed re-energising. I am just making a mushroom meatloaf for dinner, mmmmmmm mmmm.