Thanks Christine it is just so hard i don't want to do anything if he is going to be subjected to more bullying from the very people that are a supposed to protect him in my absence i did speak to the mum that brought the food from the shop and she has verified that what Ds told me was correct and then she said about 20 times that she was sorry cause if she had of said he may of had food from yesterday in his bag etc but then again i was the one who siad that to her so i feel quite guilty myself for Ds having to go through that i must say it was a hard lesson to learn i bet he'll never want tuck shop again

and ETA yay on the house Tania and your baver then i i don't think i 'll ever fly i'm a scaredy cat