*hugs* Vicky I hope you get some better sleep too. Its hard DH often has to leave our bed & go to sleep in Matilda's because she's in our bed & Jovie comes in and then its just a lot of tossing & turning & grumbling so he goes to sleep in the other room for 2 hours.

Tara I'm glad to hear this morning was a bit better. When I first had Matilda I had people telling me all the time that "she should sleep on her own" and that she needed to "learn to sleep". I kept feeling like a failure as a mum for not being able to get her to sleep. Thats why when I heard your words I felt for you. It made me remember the mother's guilt about Matilda's sleep & I wanted you to hear that you were doing everything okay because its about you & Evie definately not about your SIL.