That's brilliant AJP. and yes I do feel like hitting my head against a brick wall. It would probably be less painful actually. I'm feeling better today, onwards and upwards. It is what it is, and dwelling on it doesnt make it change. I did the same with Aston, slowed right down, and are going to move on to two meals a day today, and see how we go. He slept heaps better last night. Dh even got up in the night to check on him. lol. have a good day everyone.