Babies Born November 2006 #21

[tiggerandpooh]

you guys are so lovely... I just woke up from a lovely sleep. and had kept the computer on so the phone didnt wake me. thanks for all your lovely messages.... i have agirlfriend coming over today and we are going to paint again. great therapy.

[*EmJa*]

glad u got some rest hun...have a great day

[visitor1]

Vicky sorry to hear about your ex.....i agree, how could u not wanna see your beautiful kids

My night never got any better.. and my day is just as F'd. I keep crying, Chelsea is justing pushing me. Craig is loosing it at her. What more can i do. FFS im only one person.

[Olive]

VICKY, glad your sleep helped!!! have fun painting!!

BLANCH the bum is much much bette thanks!! two days in sposies and a bum lathered in covicol seems to have helped, no more wipes to be used in this house though

KIM whats up with chelsea????? is craig helping out??? hows the business going, selling heaps i hope

[visitor1]

Chelsea has a cold.. runny nose, chesty cough, not sleeping, clingy and driving me up the wall.

Business going well.. MCN are my biggest sellers....

[christy]

HUGS to you Kim & Chelsea poor sausage & poor mummy. I hope you get some rest.

Vicky *hugs* I'm so sorry those poor kids. My stomach aches for them & having to deal with that. Soooo..... next week girls maybe we shouldn't take up the baby buddies....

But Friday week? Here?? All the kiddies? Or should we go to an enclosed park? LOL note enclosed. Just thinking that Tara has a fair whack to come to Brissy & so does Vicky.... Somewhere we can just plonk and not have to chase or run around sounds good.

[luua]

Vicky - Sorry to here about your ex....its so strange not to want to see your kids.

Kim - You poor things. Can Craig stay home a few days to help and give you a rest? Who will be taking care of Chelsea when you bubba pops? Any BH or pains yet?

AJP - good to hear the red bot is gone. I bet she's much happier now. What is she learning at swim school? I'm thinking about enrolling Ella in a few months.

Blanche - LOL i watched out for my growing tummy too. I swore i had a bump at 10weeks! but it was nothing compared to how big i was at the end. woah mumma!

Sick of work already. They are all babies. Having to deal with immature designers that love to have tantrums... sigh... i have to go in tomorrow to pick up some documents. I might go in early so i dont have to see them.

Ann

[tiggerandpooh]

I'm so sad... feel so incredibly horrible... so overwhelmed... so mad... so DONT know what to do... this is the email I received from my big kids father this morning....

"Laura and Nathan,

This is the last time you will hear from your Dad until you want to grow up and stop listening to everything your Mother says about me. Your Mother has done everything possible to make it hard for us to spend any quality time together. And to be honest I am disgusted in the way you both have treated me this year and your obvious “out of sight out of mind attitude” you both have exhibited. I am ashamed in the way you act when you are here because all you ever seem to do is want, want, want. You hardly ever call and when you do it is usually because you are returning my call. Your Gran and Papa spent their last weekend on the Sunshine Coast without their grandkids because YOU both wanted to go to a party! They are both over 70 years old…. You may not even see them again. That was rude, unfeeling and selfish. Your attitude of a “holiday weekend” with Dad has come to a stop. You both obviously couldn’t careless whether you were here or there so stay there!

As for you Vicky all the child support will still be forthcoming so you can live the way you want (It’s the Law). Child Support that comes from the work I do in a workforce that you have been away from for a very long time and not about to re-enter soon. But you keep taking because it will end eventually and then you may have to have a good hard look at yourself.

Get the Orders changed to reflect this because I am gone."

There is NO way I am showing this email to my children... I feel sick with grief, and anxiety, and really don't know what to do. I'm sorry to dump it in here...

This is so friggin unfair - to Laura and Nathan.

i'm so sorry that I'm completely off the air. I am really not travelling very well at all. I need this like a hole in the head.

[luua]

Vicky it just made me sick to my stomach reading this. Its so unfair for him to say these things about the kids - they're just kids! God!

From what i can see from the email and the misery you've been put through its a good thing he's out of your lives. Imagine if he said those things to Laura and Nathan.

Biggest hugs in the world honey.

Ann

[*EmJa*]

Omg, ur kids do not need to read that(nor do u), their hearts will break if they did Vicky i wish there was more i could do...i really wish there was

this is like whats going on with my brother and his kids, he cant get passed hating their mother so much that the kids suffer badly cos he wont see them

[taralee]

What the hell is wrong with people. What a selfish, selfish man. I wish I had some advice, I dont know what you can say to Laura and Nathan..I would find it so hard to not stoop to his level. But you have done and are doing such a good job Vicky. and i firmly believe that what goes around comes around.

Christy - next week is good for me. Someone bring Vicky a bottle of scotch for heaven sake, she deserves it.

[visitor1]

Vicky i dont know what to say other then i have tears and pain so deep inside my heart for Nathan, Laura and You. Im in total shock, horror and anger. All i can say is im here for you as much as possible, as im sure the rest of us are as well. *HUUUUUUUUUGE HUGS*

Ann Craig is home 24/7 now He has been doing a fab job looking after Chels for me to rest, but im not getting enuf rest. We are both buggered cos both of us lookin after her at night while she is sick. If i go to bed early i cant sleep without him next to me. Pains... hmm yeah ive had alot.. as for BH.....im kinda hoping labour pains are gunna be as bad....they terrible this time...but i know its not the real thing yet!! YET!!!

Chels is worse today... has a hoarse throat when she talks, snot is yuck and her lil cough. On a good note she been in bed since 930am and sleep still. Stirred thru the night but was coughin lotsa.

[Olive]

Vicky what a disgusting thing to contemplate sending to your kids! how would they feel seeing that, i 'd gues devestated, i think there much better off without him, but then again he is there dad, not fair is it, i have no advise just more big cyber hugs for you

Ann swwimming is great, its the same every week, they learn from the start about watere safety, what to do if they fall in, safe enrtry and exit fromthe pool, kicking, swimming to our shoulders, blinking on command, going under the water.
we so lots of splashing!!!! were both drenched the moment we get in!! but love it, we go to a place called kings, not sure if they operate up there up definatly recommend, they are a little more expensive than others but i think for this its worth it, very clean as well, none of the kids have ahd ear infections unlike many friends kids who go elsewhere so the hygiene and cleaning is tip top

[*EmJa*]

Emelia has a cough and it keeps waking her up...grr!! was up with her alot last night, think its a combination of teeth and getting a cold. although she learnt to clap her hands while she was up last night LOL she also says "ta" now so cute sounds more like car though!

Vicky. hope ur doing alright hun :hugs:

[visitor1]

Went to thr chemist today so i could see if there was anything i could give Chelsea for her cough and nose... to be told "take her straight to the Dr'. So that we did. She has a viral infection, ears are dull, throat (more her palette (sp?)) is red, and the crap is in her windpipe not her chest/lungs which is much better then we thought. Dr said give her some Dinetapp (sp?) to help the nose and make her drowsy so she can sleep and recover. So she is back in bed now passed out.

[Olive]

aaww poor emilia and chelsea hope they get better soon, dimatap tastes better too kim!!

well sophie has decided this week to have long day sleeps!?!?!?! not sure why, but around 90 twice a day!?!?!?!?! not sure how long it will last but enjoying it while it lasts

[*EmJa*]

Thats wat Emelia was doing a few days ago she was sleeping 2 hours each sleep(which she NEVER does!) then BAM a tooth and we are back to not much sleep at all think others are not far behind.

Sophie looks gorgoeus as usual!! wow not long to her birthday, where o where has the time gone!

Get well soon Chelsea...hope u have a better night Kim.

[taralee]

funny you say that AJP, the last two days evie's lunchtime naps have lasted 2 HOURS!!!
Poor Chelsea and Emelia! i hate when they're sick, i wish they could tell you what was hurting
Had a great day today. she is just such a blessing and a joy
Off to watch more sopranos (a little addicted..target had the box sets on spesh), good thing i married an italian! lol