Vicky what a disgusting thing to contemplate sending to your kids! how would they feel seeing that, i 'd gues devestated, i think there much better off without him, but then again he is there dad, not fair is it, i have no advise just more big cyber hugs for you

Ann swwimming is great, its the same every week, they learn from the start about watere safety, what to do if they fall in, safe enrtry and exit fromthe pool, kicking, swimming to our shoulders, blinking on command, going under the water.
we so lots of splashing!!!! were both drenched the moment we get in!! but love it, we go to a place called kings, not sure if they operate up there up definatly recommend, they are a little more expensive than others but i think for this its worth it, very clean as well, none of the kids have ahd ear infections unlike many friends kids who go elsewhere so the hygiene and cleaning is tip top