tara no judgement here hun... i think I have said before, only one of my children was "planned" and that was Nathan... as hard as it seems right now, you will get through it. and you will have all of us to champion you on the journey.

Christy - as long as your sure, and the minute that changes please let me know. It has been a life saver for me. Aston doesn't look around at all...just keeps going. Where he think he is going I have no idea but with the monkey on, its only as far as the tail! lol