Thanks Vicky, i was never abused but definately have dad issues that mainly stem from anger, and me really feeling like i had to look out for myself and never ever depend on a man. so much so that now if ben and i have a fight i will just shut off and tell myself that i dont need him. years of therapy couldnt teach me what i learnt for myself...anyways. what you wrote made total sense to me, thanks
Thanks Kim, yeah i want to find out so that i can "prepare" myself (for want of a better word).
This is going to sound so so so terrible guys, so please dont judge, but when i realised that i could have a boy i thought to myself 'great i didnt even want to get pg and now i have to worry about that?!'
i feel so terrible about it and i know i cant really help what i feel...but i feel like if we had waited and tried to plan the next pg i couldve maybe timed having a girl...anyways, i guess i wont really know for a while anyway...is there any way they can tell at the 12 week scan?