In all fairness to DH we didnt actually sit down and fully discuss planning for another baby....I went off contraception (which is a big indicator)as it was not suiting me, which DH agreed with and we were supposed to be using other methods of "Natural Family Planning"

When I got the and told DH his exact words were "great thats all we need" but a termination wasnt an option for either of us and we have discussed this is our last and he knew that I wanted another baby.

Men dont have a maternal instinct..they may like/want children but they dont have that internal desire that is hard for us to describe.

So Luckily DH was ok with me going off contraception and the rest was fate.....

We were going to use the shettles method when actually "trying" to conceive