Amanda - i found out after i gave up BFing that B has a short fenulum - hence why i had soooo much trouble with her BFing - no one told me this at the time mind you!
The pead didnt even pick it up at her 6wks check up - and if he did than he ignored it - cause apparently according to my gp and the nurse at the chemist they are very common and usually fixes itself! So im not even sure we would be able to BF, as much as i want to give it another go, i felt so bad and felt like such a failure for not being able to do it first time round, if i still cant do it than it may just make me feel even worse, plus she has been on the bottle for so long now, i doubt she would be a happy baby going back to the boob, when the bottle is so easy for her!