oh Itsme.. HUGE hugs! remember u are NEVER alone. we are all here for u and we will help u through everyday. Some bubs just dont like the car, but thats no excuse for the crappy day u had. Just remember tomorrow is another day and try and take some chill out time. If she needs u holding her or u to be near her, lay on the bed, lay her on a pillow next to u and just cuddle for a few hours. She will prob go to sleep and it gives u some time to get some shut eye too.
Also, today i seen a lady who attached toys (like the one u hang from ur pram) to the top of the roof of the car. Im sure u can just do this using some velcro. Just a thought to give Maya something to look at, see if that works. If not everytime u BF, clean up the spills and squirt some breastmilk on a little blanket. Then drap it over her in the car. The smell of u might keep her a little calmer. Aand.. the car gives Mia horrible wind.. could she have a tummy ache from the car? To solve this i give Mia a sip of water before and after going in the car and burp her, it helps bring the wind up. HTH hunny.. and remember ur NEVER alone! xoxoxoxoo