Itsme: No I have a manual pump. I find it really had too, but I sit on a cushion on the floor and and rest Jude down between my legs and the pump rests on my thigh and I can kind of balance it. It's not easy.

I think my Ob made enough money from me, I hadn't considered buying a gift. Sure I liked him, but a gift seems too much.

Pink: Controlled crying is very controversial and most definitely doesn't apply to a young baby. Please talk to your doctor or nurse about settling your baby, I know a crying baby can do your head in but they cry for a reason and it could be medical.