Erybery go easy on yourslef hun. If the Zantac works then she must need it. Try and get some sleep. I hope the nurse can give you some answers or at least some things to try.

ETA I have been trying to post all night and it hasn't been letting me.

Cheapie my DS has been pretty good so far but I am going to pick the brains of my two girl friends tomorrow as they both have toddlers the same age and I want to be prepared. I will let you know if they have any tips, a reward chart sounds good though.