Viv - what a tough afternoon! No wonder you are questioning yourself and your decision. You made the decision for him to self settle for a reason. For the last 3 months he has been used to one way of doing things and then all of a sudden a new way is introduced and he goes "what the????". I've been there. Even this afternoon L didn't want to settle and I didn't know what else to do. Luckily DH came home from work, went in while L cried it out. IMO you need to persist with it, a little longer at least. Don't do anything that doesn't feel right. In the end you are the expert on your baby.

**Goes off to pluck out the grey hairs from head**

Amber - been meaning to ask what you thought of the CD. Does Myles like it?