Thanks everyone! I have been having a really rough time of it for so long that sometimes it really gets to me. I spend most evenings in tears on the phone to my mum or DH LOL!

Viv - Thanks, you really do write a great speach! I have been carrying him vitually everywhere for ages, but when you've got another child to look after it is sooo exhausting. I just can't leave him to cry and some people close to me make me feel like I really should just leave him so he'll "learn". But I just CAN'T do it!

Ange - I do put him in the Jolly Jumper and he loves it, but by the evening he is so distressed that he doesn't want to be put down and he won't have a bar of any of his toys. He likes being in is Ergo, but only if I'm walking around heaps, he won't let me stand still and cut veggies! I think you're right that he'll be happier once he is mobile.

Julia - Sorry you're going through it too, it's hard work!

There is definite separation anxiety atm, whenever I leave the room he cries. Joel did the same, but K just seems so much more extreme. I'm really hoping a fang appears and he goes back to being normal! Thanks again everyone, it's so nice to be able to vent and get some supportive comments back.