Thanks saffi and Rebecca, I already have bub in family day care once a week at present cos I do some casual work for a friend. At first I was worried about it, but now am SO glad I did it because it was a HUGE transition for me, and I just can't imagine going back to work 3 days per week "cold turkey" so to speak. I know it will still be hard, but at least I know Caden is ok with a lovely lady and can be left there and will be safe. Luckily she provides meals so it is mainly breakfast and bottles (EBM) that I need to organise the night before. It looks as if I will be working mon, wed, fri, which will be harder to work, but easier at home knowing I have the next day off

Saffi - who is the other lady from Perth?

Rebecca, sorry to hear about Caitlyn. A 39 temp is high for teething? Maybe an ear infection? Apparently these may coincide with teething and can get confused. Hopefully she cheers up soon.

Ninja - LOL about your dream. I am sure it isn't me as we are definitely NOT trying! About half the ladies I know with bubs around our age are trying now though, which has certainly made me think but no, no more babies for the mo.

Well, am supposed to be getting ready for work so better go!