OMG melissa,i am so sorry that this has happened to you,are you ok,i am speechless,this should not have happened,i just cannot beleive it.did they not give you any indication at all before surgery that it was going to be this seroius?and did you even know that they were going to cut you open like that aswell.you must be so sore,this is just awful.i dont know anything at all about ivf but im sure you will get heaps of answers in the other thread,try to rest and make sure dh pulls his weight with benjamin and the house work.you definantly will not be going to work any time too soon,i am thinking of you.
nikki