Babies Born September 2006 #101

[lilima]

That is the worst thing that he can do Shell, as stressing will make it harder for her to feed. Def get DF to speak to her if you think that it will help. Maybe you could ring beyond blue or PANDA and get some hints on what you can do to assist. Or you could post in the PND section and get some advice from others.

[Visitor7]

shell - I hope your friend pulls through this. It's such a difficult time in the early days, and everyone always needs their partner for support. Hopefully getting your DF to speak with hers will help.

[Beatrix]

Shell- your poor friend, unfort some males take along time to adjust to having kids (mine still hasnt) i really hope things get better for her

[shellbell3]

Thanks girls. I know he is so stressed, I suggested to her that maybe he go talk to someone rather than take it all out on her. Just couple things he has said/ done have been selfish and insensitive. It just sad cause they waited 7 years for this baby, I want them to enjoy it and not have this time overshadowed. Her MCHN sounds quite supportive and is seeing her weekly to keep eye on things.

Oh and yay Bea for 2 months of BFing!

[Cougar]

i have just uplaoded some pics of Liam,in my photo gallary, its only taken 2.5 weeks

[**Helen**]

Awww Chrissy, very cute.

[Anna**]

Hey girls!

Just thought I'd quickly pop my head in and say hello. Oh, and huge big welcome to all the new bubbas that have arrived and those still baking - you girls have been BUSY!

Shell - Please keep an eye on your friend, I wish I had a friend who noticed that I was developing PND in the early days and I may not have gotten so bad (though I've nearly made a full recovery). I do feel for her hubby - he is obviously stressed, but if he talks it out, he may realise that things really aren't so bad and then stop taking it out on her.

All is going great with us, Xander is a little bugger - a real boys' boy if you know what I mean. Things are totally flat out crazy as we a doing massive renos' and I've had my contract extended at work and likely to take on an extra day sometime after X turns 2 (someone's gotta foot the bill for all the work being done on the house and my new car). But I'm loving life so all is great.

Take care chickadees! Hugs. Anna xx