Jodi - I've been using the Bruers one as well, but he is beside himself and frantically grabbing anything to stuff in his mouth. He isn't feeding properly either and cries while BF'ing. I've tried a half frozen wet flannel, which seems to be better than the teethers... and less painful than my finger (for me!). I don't wish to use rusks yet as I do class them as food.

Oh geez Helen - At least my MIL doesn't live with us, so doesn't get the chance to wave food in front of Xander. It would be so hard if it were my DH!