Please don't get too upset AnnaT, I knew what you meant as a joke, I was the same, it took us a year and half to conceive and in all that time I used to wonder how people could complain then when I was preg myself i reakon I was the biggest whinger. (Well so my mum and sister tell me).
I can also see that others could've felt offended by it but do think its been taken the wrong way esp since not all that long ago most of us were having complaints in our 3rd trimester.
I hate for this to cause big riff in our lovely group.

Anyway on a lighter note have a great time away Annie, which i'm sure you will, I am so jealous, I'd love to go to NYC oh and after you posted the song I have been singing it to Ash over and over!

We are off to dinner at a friends place soon, yay, love being cooked for.

Oh and waiting for the big announcement Annie too, you preg?