Why would I want to chat when Im not even sure everyone is going to be nice to me? Im not a masochist. As for having the last word, its called standing up for myself. This has nothing to do with me being pregnant at all, its got everything to do with behaviour from people I thought were my friends. I didnt start this. In the end Im the one who's losing out because I cant talk in a thread to people I consider friends because of nastiness and immature attitudes.
Now if anyone else has got something to say to me, email me. I wont have anyone else harrassed for advocating my position in this. Im a grown up and Im happy to sort it out in private.
No Kell, not at all, I can completely understand where you were coming from, I was just using it as an illustration of another instance where a reaction like this might have occured. Ah Im explaining this wrong.........if certain people can be upset with me over my comments because of their position with TTC or whatever then having been in that position before I could see that they could be upset by what you discussed with us. What I dont understand is why I get targeted for a comment that wasnt even intended to cause hurt to those people or wasnt even really offensive but they werent upset about your comments that werent offensive but might have hurt them the same way mine did (and Im being honest, I bet they were hurt by it, obviously not caused intentionally by you). I remember when I was TTC Jett and I used to get so upset when people would talk about thinking theyre pregnant but not wanting to be. Then I hopped over to the pregnancy and parenting side of the fence and realised that sometimes situations happen and you end up possibly being faced with something you hadnt planned for and its not the right time. Which is part of what my comments this morning where about - I worried that I hadnt fully thought through the implications of being pregnant and coping with a teething, mobile baby on my life and stress levels - maybe I should have given myself a few more months of working out a routine. Anyway it happened, Im happy with being pregnant again. Does that make sense? Oh Im just going to give up. Obviously no one is going to even try to understand where Im coming from.
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