Hmmm.. So whats everyone having for dinner? Mmmm i finally got my KFC Woo!
Ok... deep breath.
Um.. my thoughts.. i love you all.. everyone has their own lives and issues and im here for you all.
In my opinion.. If you were to tell me you had a can of Dr Pepper and i am without, then sure id be jealous but ill be happy for you in the same respect.. as friends support each other through everything, whether one has something the other wants or not.. whether one is having a bad day, whether one is having a biatch, through the highs and lows.. Thats what friends are for..
If i offended anyone by when i was worried i was pregnant last week and not wanting to be yet, then sorry, but tough titties.. though i would still have kept and loved the baby very much, for me emotionally it would have been very hard. I would like to think that as my friend's you would have the same respect for my wishes as i do for you on the reverse.
AnnaT.. hun, you havent offened me any.. i know you are just happy about your pregnancy and for some, although it is a happy time, it can be a very daunting time too if you are sick.. especially when having another bubs to look after this time round (hense why i am so scared of getting preggas atm - but i respect you for doing what you do)
Everyone else TTC..
I understand how what was said could have hit a nerve, i think Anna was just having a vent. I dont think she meant it in the way she would wish away her pregnancy or to offend you.. i think more that she knew we were all friends and friends who one can count on to let out whats on your chest.. even if its just a ramble and you dont mean it.
I believe everything happens for a reason.. there is a reason you were given the child/ren you have now.. because someone out there, whoever or whatever guides us, knew you were ready and would be a great mum. When the time is right, that little tadpole will find it's egg and you will be a great mummy all over again.
There has been so many ups and downs lately with our group and id like to think we're all strong enough to stick together.. well if not anyone else, i know i need you all.. i wouldnt have gotten through the last 8 months if it wasnt for you guys.. so please.. can you please all kiss and make up?
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