Hi guys, soo tired, just a quickie. Hope you are all well.
Laurin-Rylee sounds sooo much like what Bella was like as a baby its not funny. I really feel for you and what you are going through. When I had Bella noone understood what it was like, they just presumed that I spoilt her rotten and let her get her onw way, but seriously she was hard work and any attempt at controlled crying and routine would have her vomitting everywhere she used to get herself so worked up. Bella was the same during the day would always fall asleep, no matter what at about 4-5pm and then wouldnt go to sleep until about 1am after heaps of walking around and rocking. I really commend you for being able to do this most of the time as a single mother plus doing your uni assignments, you msut be sooo exhausted and in need of a break. As for suggestions on how to deal with her. I would try not to stress too much about her bedtime, she is still young and if you can be more relaxed about her being up she may start to relax too. Maybe aim for bedtime at 10pm instead of 7pm and then slowly work you way backwards 5-10mins at a time until you get her to bed at a more desireable time. Also as hard as it is laying on the floor next to her cot and rubbing her back and giving her a bit of a tap to go to sleep. A lot of the time with Bella I could be in there for an hr or more, but eventually she would calm down sooner and sooner, but she would still like to make sure I was there and would cuddle my arm to go to sleep. Look I really dont think that there is anything magic that I can say that would help you out. But please know that I know what you are going through and it is hard work and no amount of things would really help Bella. She went into a big bed earlier and that seemed to help, but take heart she will get better, and you'll look back at this time and wonder how the hell you coped, but you are coping, she is a happy and healthy girl, all that is wrong it is that she doesnt sleep well. Yes it's a hard slog for you but something you will get through. Hope that helps.
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Must be all the walking he's doing. Its weird to wake up at 8:30am and know he hasnt stirred, I still panic most times and run to check on him. 


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